FALL 2022 Programs
EVERYBODY IN!
Community Dinners
Wednesdays, Nov. 9 and Dec. 7, 6–8 p.m. in the Social Hall
RSVP Requested
Swing by church for a delicious home-cooked meal at 6 p.m. in the Social Hall. All are welcome and there is no charge. Menu available on our website, a week in advance. We always offer vegan, vegetarian, gluten free, nut free and kid-friendly options. All church events are alcohol-free. Following dinner, stick around and join a breakout group to learn more about one of the many opportunities for deeper engagement at church.
NOVEMBER 9 MENU: We’ll be serving macaroni and cheese with vegan and gluten-free options, along with a green salad, fruit salad, and cookies.
DECEMBER 7 MENU: We’ll be serving vegan chili, baked potatoes, and salad.
Breakout Groups:
SMALL GROUPS, BOOK GROUPS & CLASSES FOR ADULTS
Sermon-Based Small Groups
Choose Wednesdays or Thursdays, 7–8:30 p.m., at church or on Zoom, beginning mid-October (see sign up form for dates and available options)
Registration required
If you’re looking for a group in which you can give, receive and grow, this is a good place to start. Small groups offer a way into intentional religious community, with the same people committed to meeting together five or six times. These sermon-based small groups use the Sunday service message as the basis for personal reflection, and invite us to practice deep listening and sharing from our hearts as we support one another’s spiritual growth. There are a variety of times and options on the sign up form, including gathering with folks of various ages and identities and a choice of meeting in person or on Zoom. Facilitated by First U members
Abolition 101: Imagining Freedom for All
Thursdays, Oct. 20, 27, Nov. 3, 10, and 17, 7–8:30 p.m. at church
or Sundays, Oct. 23, 30, Nov. 6, 13, and 20, 7–8:30 p.m. on Zoom
Registration required
What can we learn from the experience and expertise of Black feminists and others who understand the impact of policing and mass incarceration? How are they creating and imagining a world of care and transformative justice that brings safety and freedom for everyone? Join us in this five-week circle, developed for white folks, to reflect on the wisdom of long-time abolitionists and those exploring ways to create communities and institutions that support the safety, welfare, and well-being of every person. This listening and reflection circle is not a seminar, debate, or discussion – it’s an opportunity to learn about abolition, regardless of whether you believe it’s the best way forward. Each person’s feelings and experiences will be honored and respected. Thursdays led by Denise Konen and Jeff Sylvestre, Sundays led by Brian Eshult and Lindsay Walz, all First U members
Climate Container Circle
Tuesdays, Oct. 25, Nov. 1, 8, 15, 29, and Dec. 6, 7–8:30 p.m. at church
Registration required
Wherever you find yourself in relation to the climate crises—grief, curiosity, anger, hope—come be held and witnessed in this circle. Each week we’ll focus on a different theme including locating ourselves and the broader world, living with hypocrisy, discovering solutions, and practicing dreaming. Come journey with us in this 6-week circle, where we will use the first 30 minutes to engage in material together, then share our individual responses. Give yourself the gift of dedicated time and a safe container to engage (there will be nothing required between sessions and we will adhere to the strict circle format of no crosstalk, advice, or judgments). Facilitated by Alix Dvorak and Cheryl Ritenbaugh, First U members
We’re Not Broken: Changing the Autism Conversation Book Group
Tuesdays, Oct. 25, Nov. 1 and 15, 7–8:30 p.m. on Zoom; closing meeting Saturday, Nov. 19, 9–11 a.m. at church
Registration required
As a journalist, Eric Garcia realized he needed to put into writing what so many autistic people have been saying for years; autism is a part of their identity, they don’t need to be fixed. In We’re Not Broken, Garcia uses his own life as a springboard to discuss the social and policy gaps that exist in supporting those on the spectrum, from education to healthcare. At the same time, he shares the experiences of all types of autistic people, from those with higher support needs, to autistic people of color, to those in the LGBTQ community, giving his community a platform to articulate their own needs, rather than having others speak for them. Together, we’ll read sections of the book, then gather to share our own insights, experiences, and questions. We hope that if you sign up you will plan to attend all three Zoom gatherings, with the final in-person meetup optional. Our facilitators identify as neurodivergent (Katrina) and as the parent of an autistic child (Renada). Book available to borrow or purchase in advance at church. Facilitated by Katrina Mitchell and Renada Rutmanis, First U members
Take What You Need Book Group
Wednesdays, Oct. 26, Nov 2, 9, Tuesday, Nov. 22, and Wednesdays, Nov. 30 and Dec. 7, 7–8:30 p.m. at church
Registration required
Jen Crow’s transformation was triggered, quite literally, by a bolt of lightning. That jolt, which destroyed her home in a subsequent fire, forced her to consider what she really needed as she looked to rebuild her life. In her book, Take What You Need: Life Lessons After Losing Everything, Jen opens new perspectives for all of us looking to understand our past, our unexpected suffering, and our failures, so we too can begin charting a course forward – one drawn from resilience and hope. We see with the immediacy of someone who nearly lost it all that our possessions won’t carry us. What carries us—what we take with us—are our responses to the regrets, losses, separations, addictions, and unexpected twists and turns of our lives. These are shaped by the spiritual values that sustain us and the people who support us. Together, we’ll read Take What You Need in six sections, taking time at each gathering to share our own insights, experiences, and questions. This is a listening and reflection circle, and we hope that if you sign up you will plan to attend all six gatherings. Book available to borrow or purchase in advance at church. Facilitated by author (and our very own) Rev. Jen Crow, Senior Minister
Poetry Lovers Reading Circle
Thursdays, Nov. 3 and Dec. 1, 7–8:30 p.m. on Zoom
Registration required
At each meeting, we read aloud and discuss the work of a poet selected by the group ahead of time. Poets from a variety of styles, eras, and cultures are included. We meet monthly on the first Thursday from 7–8:30 p.m. Our first and last meetings of the church year (October and May) are in person at church; November through May meetings are on Zoom; we do not meet in January. Register to receive updates, materials, and the Zoom link. Facilitated by Carol Flint, Valerie Garber and Patty Park, First U members
Parent/Caregiver Conversations: How to Raise an Antiracist
Sunday, Nov. 6, 1–2:30 p.m. in the Cummins Room; Thursdays, Nov. 17 and Dec. 1, 7–8 p.m. on Zoom
Registration required
The tragedies and reckonings around racism that are rocking the country have created a specific crisis for parents and caregivers: How do we talk to our children about racism? How do we teach children to be antiracist? How are kids at different ages experiencing race? How are racist structures impacting children? How can we inspire our children to avoid our mistakes, to be better, to make the world better? We’ll begin by watching a short interview with author Ibram X. Kendi, then break out into groups based on our kids’ developmental stages and our racial identities for guided conversation. Those attending the workshop will be invited to read the book after we meet, and join two optional follow up discussions on Zoom. Book available to borrow or purchase in advance at church. Facilitated by Lauren Wyeth, Director of Spiritual Growth for All Ages
Book Launch: Liberated to the Bone, with Susan Raffo
Wednesday, Nov. 16, 6–8 p.m. in the Sanctuary
Set for release in mid-November in the Emergent Strategy series from AK Press, Liberated to the Bone: Histories. Bodies. Futures. addresses the intersections between healing our physical bodies and healing our social relations which are shaped by violence. Bodyworker and cultural worker Susan Raffo addresses intergenerational trauma, social justice, organizing, and how all of these things are relevant to our bodies. The book illuminates three different approaches to healing: ending violence, the significance of being rooted in the present, and creating the conditions to address unfinished histories and generational trauma. By showing how these approaches are intricately connected—physically and emotionally—Raffo interrupts the traumatic binaries of the political and spiritual, the physical and intellectual, and healing and organizing. Join Rev. Arif Mamdani in conversation with Susan Raffo on the book and how it speaks to the social, political, and theological moment we’re in. Facilitated by Rev. Arif Mamdani, Associate Minister
LGBT Spirituality
Meets monthly on Zoom
Registration required
This group will help support us on our journeys through and with LGBT-specific theology. Any and all LGBT folks interested in LGBT theology are welcome. Register to be on the email list about future meeting times. Facilitated by Kaden Colton, First U Member
FAITHFUL ACTION: OPPORTUNITIES FOR ENGAGEMENT
Climate Conversations: A Way Forward to Climate Solutions
Sunday, Oct. 30, 1–2:30 p.m. at church or Monday, Nov. 14, 7–8:30 p.m. on Zoom
Registration required
Join in a 90-minute small-group conversation to discuss your feelings of grief, frustrations and fears, as well as your hopes and dreams, around the climate crisis and to explore personal and communal actions to save us from climate catastrophe. Come with your questions, your passions, your knowledge, and your experience to help grow our congregation’s commitment to seeking and implementing solutions to the climate crisis. Bring a willingness to share and to listen, to problem-solve and to question, to exchange ideas and build on one another’s enthusiasm. Facilitated by guides from First U’s Environmental Justice Team
Habitat for Humanity Build Day
Saturday, Nov. 5, 8:30 a.m.–3:30 p.m. in South Minneapolis
Registration required
Join a team of folks from church in working with Habitat for Humanity to build a house. The workday runs 8:30 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. and lunch is provided. No experience is necessary and this is a fantastic way to meet others in the church while putting your energy and time on the side of love. Find more information at the sign up link. Sponsored by First U’s Housing Justice Team
Indigenous Women Water Protectors
Sunday, Nov. 13, 1–2 p.m. in the Cummins Room
The Universal Gallery exhibit by photographer John Kaul – in the Social Hall from Oct. 23 to Nov. 27 – highlights Indigenous Women Water Protectors. Kaul has photographed and interviewed nineteen Native American women about why they work to protect the water. The exhibit will tell the story of the Indigenous women he met on ceremonial water walks and Line 3 protests. Join the photographer and one of the women whose story is told to learn more about their work and their message. Co-sponsored by First U’s Visual Arts Committee and Environmental Justice Team
The Intersection of RJ and EJ on the Northside: A Conversation with Kristel Porter
Sunday, Nov. 20, 1–2:30 p.m. Attend in person at church, or join us on Zoom
Registration required
Kristel Porter is a First Universalist Foundation grantee this year. Join this conversation to hear how our support is helping Kristel implement Solstar, a low income solution for rooftop solar on Northside homes. Kristel is a neighborhood organizer, Executive Director of MN Renewable Now, and environmental activist leading the Energy Revolution team at MN Interfaith Power and Light (MNIPL). She will share with us an action we can take immediately related to Xcel’s proposal to increase our electricity rates by 21%. Sponsored by First U’s Environmental Justice Team
Relationships Evolving Possibilities (REP) Info Session
Saturday, Dec. 10, 10 a.m. – noon in person at church
Dive deeper into the origins of Relationships Evolving Possibilities (REP), a network of dedicated abolitionists showing up to support others in moments of crisis or urgency, with care and respect for the full dignity and autonomy of the people in crisis. We’ll engage in open learning and dialogue around the following;
- Connection with the core values of REP: Black love and liberation, radical consent, and ancestral wisdom
- Naming revolutionary ancestors and elders on whose shoulders we stand
- Beginning to map the abolitionist possibilities within our personal circles and communities
- Workshopping responses to community safety scenarios
BLACK, INDIGENOUS, AND PEOPLE OF COLOR
BIPOC Book Conversation: Being Black: Zen and the Art of Living with Fearlessness and Grace
Sunday, Nov 6, 1–2:30 p.m. in Room 201
Registration required
In this elegant, practical book, Rev. angel Kyodo Williams combines the universal wisdom of Buddhism with an inspirational call for self-acceptance and community empowerment. Written by a woman who grew up facing the challenges that confront African-Americans every day, Being Black teaches us how a “warrior spirit” of truth and responsibility can be developed into the foundation for real happiness and personal transformation. BIPOC church members and friends are invited to read the book before we gather, then join us to talk about the ideas and concepts within, how they did or didn’t speak to us, and what they mean for our lives and practices as Unitarian Universalists individually, in the community, and here at church too. Book available to borrow or purchase in advance at church. Facilitated by Dr. Glen Thomas Rideout, Director of Worship Arts Ministries, and Rev. Arif Mamdani, Associate Minister
Dinner Church for BIPOC Folks: Being Nourished in Body and Spirit
Wednesday, Nov. 30, 6–8 p.m. in the Cummins Room
Registration required
What’s Dinner Church? Pretty much what it sounds like—we’ll have a meal together while creating a worshipful experience together with music, words, and opportunities to share what’s on our hearts and minds. You’ll be fed in body and spirit while helping to create and sustain the community we all need. We gather on the last Wednesday of each month, November through May (no meeting in December). BIPOC members and friends of the church are invited. Kids are welcome and encouraged to attend, and childcare staff will be available to support parents and caregivers. Hosted by Dr. Glen Thomas Rideout, Director of Worship Arts Ministries, Lóre Stevens, Cummins Ministerial Intern, and Rev. Arif Mamdani, Associate Minister
SENIORS
Daytime Connections
Thursdays, Oct. 20, Nov. 17 and Dec. 15, 10 a.m.–noon in the Social Hall or on Zoom
Registration required
Daytime Connections programs begin at 10 a.m. on the third Thursday of each month, from October through May. They include fabulous presenters about fascinating topics, a delicious lunch, and an opportunity to meet new people and rekindle old friendships. The October program will give you a chance to “Meet Dr. Glen Thomas.” In November, the team will present a program called “Stay On Your Feet” about balance and (not) falling. And in December, please come and explore the potential benefits of Cannabis. Registration is requested a minimum of four days in advance. Organized and hosted by the Daytime Connections Planning Team
Falling Upward Book Group
Wednesdays, Nov. 2, 9 and 16, 10:30 a.m.–noon at church
Registration required
In Falling Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life, Father Richard Rohr offers a new way of understanding one of life’s profound mysteries: how our failing can be the foundation for our ongoing spiritual growth. Drawing on wisdom from many sources, he explores the two halves of life to show that those who have “gone down” are the only ones who understand “up.” Rohr takes us on a journey to give us an understanding of how the heartbreaks, disappointments and first loves of life are actually stepping stones to the spiritual joys that the second half of life has in store for us. Together, we’ll read Falling Upward in three sections, taking time at each gathering to share our own insights, experiences, and questions. This is a listening and reflection circle, and we hope that if you sign up you will plan to attend all three gatherings. Book available to borrow or purchase in advance at church. Facilitated by Rev. Meg Riley, First U member
Planning Your Own Memorial
Thursdays, Nov. 10 and Dec. 1, 9:30–11 a.m. in the Cummins Room or on Zoom
Registration required
When the time comes, your loved ones will want some guidance about how you’d want your life to be remembered and celebrated. In this two-part workshop, we’ll provide support for planning your own memorial service. We’ll share the basics of what UU memorials typically include (and why) and some of the technicalities (like costs, musicians, content, etc.). We’ll also provide some guidance on navigating these important but difficult conversations with your loved ones, so there is less stress and uncertainty – and more closeness and clarity – between you today. Participants are requested to attend both sessions, as our second meeting will build on our first. Led by Rev. Arif Mamdani, Associate Minister, and Lóre Stevens, Cummins Ministerial Intern
CHILDREN, YOUTH & FAMILIES
Family Halloween Parties
Saturday, Oct. 29 in the Social Hall
RSVP requested
Come celebrate Halloween and the joys of Fall with the younger members of our church community.
- 9–11 a.m. Families with babies through 1st graders are invited for simpler crafts and a light brunch. Older siblings are welcome.
- 11 a.m.–1 p.m. Families with 2nd-5th graders are invited for games, crafts and pizza lunch. Siblings are welcome.
Join us for games, music, crafts, and a Halloween costume parade. Enjoy a meal and some coffee or cider, as well as some delicious seasonal treats. Eat, drink, and be scary! This is a wonderful way to connect with other families while your kids make some awesome memories and deepen their ties to their church community.
Hosted by Hirut Hedge, Spiritual Growth Programs Assistant, and Lauren Wyeth, Director of Spiritual Growth for All Ages
Families with Babies and Preschoolers Meet Up
Sunday, Dec. 4, 12:30–2 p.m. in Rooms 102-104
RSVP requested
Join us for a holiday-themed meet up after church. There will be snacks, a craft, and plenty of opportunities to chat with other parents/caregivers while little ones play. Families with babies through preschoolers are invited; older siblings are welcome. Hosted by Hirut Hedge, Spiritual Growth Programs Assistant
Youth Ministry Advisor Conversations
Sundays, Oct. 30, Nov. 13 and 20, and Dec. 4, 7–8:30 p.m. on Zoom
Join us for learning and reflection about important topics in youth ministry such as safety and setting boundaries, building relationships, and shared leadership. Current Youth Advisors will receive the Zoom link by email. If you’re interested in exploring volunteer youth ministry opportunities through participation in these conversations, please email Emma@firstuniv.org. Facilitated by Emma Paskewitz, Youth Program Coordinator
ARTS & SPIRITUAL PRACTICE GATHERINGS
Labyrinth Walk
Tuesday, Nov. 15, 7–8 p.m. in the Social Hall
Want to learn more about the labyrinth in our Social Hall? Here’s your chance! At 7 p.m., there will be a 20 minute introduction to the labyrinth. It will be open to walk from 7:20–8 p.m. Large wooden finger labyrinths will be available for those with limited mobility. Can’t make this event or want more information? Contact Ann at 612-483-8431. Facilitated by Ann and Howard Hobbs, First U church members
Community Knitting Circle
Tuesday, Oct. 18 in Room 201
Tuesday, Nov. 15, 7–8:45 p.m. on Zoom
Registration required
First Universalist knitters and crocheters meet to work on their projects and socialize. Some folks work on Hats for the Homeless or bears for The Mother Bear Project, two local charities. Others work on their own projects. All ability levels and both regular and occasional participants are welcome. Meets monthly on the third Tuesday from 7-8:45 p.m. The first and last meetings of the church year (October and May) are in person at church; all other meetings (November through May) are on Zoom; no meeting in December. Facilitated by Barb Melom and Valerie Garber, First U members
Meditation Group
Tuesdays, 9–10:15 a.m. in Room 209, or join on Zoom
Registration required
The Tuesday Meditation Group is always open to new members and all are welcome. Facilitation is shared by those in the group. On the second Tuesday of the month, we have a Learning Session and end at 11 a.m. Sign up to receive more information and an email that includes the Zoom link for those who wish to join virtually. Contact Sara McMullen, First U member, with questions at 612-805-5059 or saramcminneapolis@gmail.com.
Chi-Gung
Thursdays, 10–11:30 a.m. on Zoom
Pat leads gentle movements with a focus on harmonizing our personal energies. No meetings on the third Thursday of the month. Contact Judy Broad at jab679@gmail.com for more info and Zoom access. Led by Pat Gottschalk, First U member
PASTORAL & COMMUNITY CARE
Divorce Small Group
Schedule to be determined by group. Sign up here.
Are you recently divorced or going through a separation or divorce? Would it be helpful for you to meet with others and work through some questions to help you process and harvest the meaning out of this challenging experience? If so, this group might be just what you are looking for. We are currently collecting signups for the next round of the group, which will likely launch in November or January. If you’re wondering if this is the right place for you, it probably is. Please let us know you’re interested by signing up today.
Grief Group
Sundays, Oct. 23, Nov. 6 and 20, 4–5:30 p.m. on Zoom
Registration required
A gathering for those who are grappling with the web of feelings associated with loss. A group of souls who share, listen and care. A community interested in exploring new life invitations. Come as you are, when you feel moved to attend. We will be here for you. Facilitated by Rev. Stephanie Vos, Community Minister and First U member
Caregivers Group
Sunday, Nov. 20, 1–2:30 p.m. on Zoom
Registration required
Caring for a family member who needs special care is a demanding and often unseen or unacknowledged role. Whether you’re caring for an aging parent or a child with a chronic health condition, join the Caregivers group for mutual support, connection, and community building. When we gather, we’ll light a chalice, have time for introductions, and share a reading, then move into deeper sharing, support, and reflection. Facilitated by Rev. Arif Mamdani, Associate Minister
First U Recovery Community
Sundays, Oct. 30 and Dec. 4, 1–2 p.m. in Room 207
Folks in recovery from alcohol and other drug use have voiced an interest in gathering at church for a chance to be in and build community and know they’re not alone. Let’s meet up to get connected and imagine ways of being together that would be spiritually nurturing. All who are involved in recovery from substance use—or wish to be—are welcome to join us. No RSVP required. Facilitated by Rev. Arif Mamdani, Associate Minister
FOR VISITORS AND NEWCOMERS
A Place to Start
1st and 3rd Sundays, immediately after each worship service
Are you new or new-ish to First Universalist and wondering where to begin? Here’s “A Place to Start!” Whether you’re simply curious or are considering making this your spiritual home, in this casual, 45-minute class, you’ll learn some of the basics of Unitarian Universalism, as well as how to get connected to what you’re seeking here at church. Meet at the front of the sanctuary immediately after the service on a 1st or 3rd Sunday. No RSVP necessary. Facilitated by First U members
Newcomers Circle
Sundays, Oct. 23 and 30, Nov. 6 and 13, 1–2:30 p.m. in Room 209
Registration required
Newcomer Circles are four-session gatherings of 6–8 participants who are new-ish and want to reflect on their own journeys and listen to stories from the journeys of other new-ish folks. While membership is not required, Newcomers Circle is intended for those who are fairly certain they will commit to and continue their UU spiritual journey at First Universalist. Facilitated by George Dow and Philipp Muessig, First U members
Pathway to Membership
2 Sessions in person: Sundays, Oct.9 and 16, 12:45–2:30 p.m. in the Cummins Room (includes light lunch)
or 1 Session virtual: Tuesday, Oct. 25, 6:30–8:30 p.m. on Zoom
Registration required
Pathway to Membership is a class for those who want to become members. Learn about the church at your own pace through online videos before meeting, then choose a class meeting experience that meets your needs. Facilitated by Liz Farmer, Coordinator of Membership and Congregational Connections, and Ginny McAninch, First U member
